Go with scary man, you would be surprised what an intense angry look in your eyes will do. I get the benefit of intense eyes and being a girl, so it creates this "I will kill you look" that scares the crap out of a lot of people when I am super pissed. Because apparently I have this "I will kill you in your sleep" look that people take seriously with me, which is weird because you should never take me seriously.
I understand the crap game, hell I remember running a combat patrol vs some sisters with my bugs. The person them-self wasn't necessarily the problem, it was the fact that I was getting WTF owned because my charge range through cover came up ONE INCH short. Like literally I would have destroyed him if not for that bloody one inch. It wasn't so much the loss that got to me, but that once that inch was failed, I didn't have a chance in hell.