I think the most important thing to remember in all of this, is that we as a people should be pro-human and pro-freedom. What I've never felt is that men and women should be equal for the sake of it. We are not equal. That's not harsh, it's true. The main issue I see with the world is that people expect to be judged on whether they have a minority status (can be subjective, not touching that with a barge pole), and not if they can actually do the job. There are are certain things that guys complain they get passed over for compared to women and vice versa, I always find myself thinking that if we could just focus on who does the job best as a person not a sex/colour/whatever else, we'd be a lot better off.
That said, I really fear for women fighting on the front line of any military situation. Again, if they can actually do the job and it not screw with unit cohesion etc. then there should theoretically be no problems, but it's just the danger of what can happen if they're captured by an enemy just doesn't bear thinking about. It's bad enough guys with guys, but war is a place where many humans become something a little worse.
This thread, and it's originator has done well to mostly avoid the 'militant feminist hates men and shouts loudly at anything disagreeing with the view that women are downtrodden', and remains an interesting read. For both of those things, thank you.