As per the title. And something I'm intimately familiar with.
Is there a way out? Or is it permanent damnation?
See I have a very dear friend. Someone I've stood by through thick and thin. No matter the issue or crisis, I've been there for them. When all others have walked/skulked away in the face of adversity, I was this person's rock.
Stuff kind of happened, but got awkward in the way that can only happen to me. Mutual 'yes.......but no' type thing
And now this lovely lass is single, and for once not hurting.
Issue came up tonight without my mentioning. I was in the bog having a much needed slash. Came back, and she looked a bit bashful , and I overheard her saying that she and I would be a big 'weird'. Which to be fair it would, at least at first.
Yet I am the only guy to have not been if not altruistic in her presence, at least selfless. I've fallen on the proverbial so many times I genuinely hurts.
And I know I could make her happier than anyone she's ever dated.
So how to break this cycle?
Help me BOLSy-wan-Kenobi. You're my only hope.