Indeed.I suggest you go read the feminism thread in the Oubliette.
Speaking as a self-identifying feminist/feminist ally, I linked point 5 to the Feminism thread in the Oubliette for that exact reason. No point starting a fresh discussion when we've been having it quite successfully here for several years now.
Start by reading the Feminism thread. You can post all your questions there. It's actually a surprisingly calm place most of the time. The occasional argument breaks out, but they never last more than about a week.I have....many many questions for you ladies but am figuring how to pose them so i dont come across like da or something.