Thre is a questline you get from Preston Garvey that gives you some basic settlement taks to teach you the basics, but I'd really recommend reading some tutorials online. It's not a difficult system (though using a controller might make it harder), but it requires some getting used to.
Also remember one of the great strengths of Fallout is exploration, just wandering about seeing what you find and what you can kill and loot, so don't just focus on main missions wander around and explore and see whar you find. Not that it will hurt doing the main storyline of course.