Not even Craftworlders refer to them as "Dark Eldar".Same goes for the Dark Eldar for exactly the same reasons. If they were going to be calling themselves anything, it should be 'Eldar', because they're the ones who still cling to the old ways from before The Fall.
Commorites and Dark Kin are the most used terms.
The Dark Eldar in turn refer to themselves as Commorites or true kin.
It is just a name for the book. Chaos Space Marines do not refer to themselves as Chaos Space Marines either while Tyranids are actually named after a Planet